There is real Change and there is false change. If you think you are not good enough the way you are, and try to change . . . you are in trouble. Any such change will be illusion. Never criticise or judge yourself, just accept yourself. Self-acceptance and self-appreciation are steps toward self-Love. When you are Loving yourself unconditionally – warts and all – then real change will take place. Love is the energy of change. Change is not a fabric that we can simply weave to our liking.
As I have said many times; you cannot change and remain the same! And, of course, people want to change AND remain the same. So they modify, and think it is change. Right now, in our lives, the world and its denizens are going through change. Most people will resist – not a good idea – while the few will embrace it. Change always takes you into new territory, and newness is the game to join. Kicking and struggling, more-of-the-same is on its way out.
So, I recommend that you embrace change, and once again, I will remind you you to constantly and consciously . . . choose Love!