If unconditional Love was easy, Ogwal, I doubt that I would be writing these musings. You need to be very clear that our human level of love is based in the emotions. And this is perfectly okay. Mostly our everyday love is full of our expectations from the person or people we love. We have emotional hooks in them, and they in us . . . and all this is perfectly okay.
Unconditional Love is the Power of Creation. When you experience this Love it is based first in yourself. Only when you Love yourself unconditionally can you Love other people in this way. In fact, when you Love yourself unconditionally you cannot not Love other people. You look past the personalities into the soul Beings that we all are. Just as the body is a temporary temple for the soul, so the personally is simply paint on the temple.To experience unconditional Love can either come from a peak experience that continues forever, or from the constant practice of Loving without any conditions or demands.
Unconditional Love is all about being conscious. This is why I write suggesting that you constantly and CONSCIOUSLY . . . choose Love.